It’s Time for a New Season of Life…
It’s fair to say that I’ve had some pretty big changes these past couple of months. I lost my dad uring Christmas time. I’ve been healing and resetting non-stop since the beginning of 2023. Just, finding a way to feel like my old self.
And yet, it’s just that. I’m not my old self. And I’m never going to be that again. Truth be told, I haven’t been old me for a very long time. Probably since I found out my dad’s diagnosis. And it’s only been in these last couple of weeks that I’ve come to accept this.
Recently, I cut a relationship toxic out of my life. And ever since then, I’ve felt freer and more like me than I have done in a longtime. It’s like a huge weight off my shoulders and I can breathe again. I’m ready. To let go of my old self. And become that woman.
Becoming That Woman.
I know the terming becomign that woman is something that is bouncing around on TikTok as a trend. But to me it’s more than that. It’s feel like complete reset, a system reboot. The OCD within me loves to do a new goals/ monthly reset at the beginning of the month. But this cannot wait. I’m fighting all urges and starting right now.
So what does becoming that woman entail?
Steps to a Brighter Future.
For starts, I’m really embracing health. I gave up alcohol before the start of the new year. I’m starting working out in the mornings again, just to get my body moving. I’m flooding the body with omega 3 supplements and brain training every single day. I have a strict bedtime of 10 pm.
However, it doesn’t stop here. Finance wise, I getting on top of this. I’ve talked about how I managed to get myself sorted whereby I will retire vety comfortably. Something that I cannot talk about now, but there’s something coming in my career that will give me furhter security. And Lee and I are serious about buying a home next year. It feels like the right time. We’re getting our holiday out of the way and then it’s time to get going with saving. This doesn’t mean we wont be making over our rental home. Just changing it up and moving slowly with it.
I’m also embracing me. I’m accepting that my style is classic and simple. Fully proud of the coastal grandmother that I am. I’m giving time to the things that fill my cup. Anything that doesn’t is out of here.
The final thing is giving more to my creative outlets. And that involves his blog and my other platforms. Really pushing my creativity and just getting more enjoyment out of the content I create.
Let’s Get Started.
So here’s to day one. Becoming that woman begins today. It’s going to take time and I’m taking baby steps. Slowly but surely bringing in the changes to my life to heal, become whole and give everything to becoming the new me. Watch this space.